When you don't have a women in your life, nobody seems to pay you any mind. When I did things, with a former lady friend, back in Ohio, its like everyone wanted to text and actually look at you. When your single, its like being the towns pest. Nobody cares about you, or wants to be around you. As for women my age. Most have been through where I'm trying to get. They have atleast 2 kids, and have been married, or divorce allready. I'm slowly losing interest in any of that, cause I don't want to add to what they allready have. As a single guy, with no kids, I look at why is a women with 2 or 3 kids single? Its a reason for it. And I don't care to be a part of it to be honest.